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♪♫♪Happy Happy Joy Joy♪♫♪ Welcome to our blog. I never knew the journey that accompanies a family. Getting married was a big step/commitment; but adding kiddos to the mix, euphoria on a bi-polar level ;) It's incredible how much you can love your little army of kiddos. Oh, they drive us both to brink of insanity...but no matter what happens...whether good or bad...funny or sad...it will all work out! Family Verse: Romans 8:28 "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to [his] purpose."

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

Kids....cranky or not

Slow starting morning...it was crank after crank...
The children were snug in their beds and were not going to budge for anything!! I even promised a trip to the park after school if the kids were just get up and get moving.
All 3 woke up on the wrong side of the bed...funny how all 3 bed are up against a wall. Haaa!! Maybe that was the reason for the grumpy grumps. The whining and verbal disagreements started quickly "She's looking at me....well, he was looking at me....She's touching me. Why are you touching me every time mom walks out. Moooooooooooom! she pinched me! .... quit looking at me!"  And then the morning banter went silent. I peeked around the corner to investigate and they were having a tongue sticking out feud. Oh me, Oh my....I need something more than coffee this morning.


My friend and I got a pretty good workout in this morning. I know it was therapeutic for me...getting all that frustration out during my cardio session. 

I hope the children come home from school in pleasant moods. It truly makes a difference for them and those around them. I might beat them to the punch (not literally) and greet with a yummy snack and drink. 

It's almost Easter time...which means my birthday is getting closer. Yay!!

-enJoy

Monday, April 14, 2014

Happy Heart Day to Lilyann

 
Happy almost Heart Day to Lilyann!!!


Tomorrow marks the day, 6 yrs ago, that Lilyann went in for open heart surgery to have her VSD fixed.

When we found out we were having a little girl, we never realized how our lives would change. I was so happy to have a little girl. Everything during my pregnancy was going great! I was keeping off the extra weight (pregnancy can really pack on those pounds), my blood pressure was great (nasty culprit during my last pregnancy), and life was grand!
Lilyann Jade was born a chubby 7 lbs 1 oz. She was adorable ♥ And the best part, she latched on quickly. I was overjoyed. She was gaining a few ounces within the first week. By week 3, due to some complications on my end, we switched to formula. Lily was still doing pretty good. She slept a lot...a little more than what you'd expect from a newborn. But I was so frazzled with a newborn and an active 2 yr old at the time, this didn't register with me. By week 6, she was crying all the time. I was kicking myself in the butt for not continuing to nurse thinking the formula was messing up her tummy. After a weekend of her crying non stop, we took her in...thinking she had a blockage in her tummy or something. Little did we expect to hear the words..... "she has a hole in her heart." I remember just sitting there thinking..okay, it's a hole..everyone has holes in their hearts. I actually asked "Is this serious?" Of course, it was. 
Lily's weigh in at that 7 week appointment was 8lbs. She had only gained 1 lb over her birth weight in 7 weeks. The dr sent us home with a promise to call us after she had appointments set up for us. Appointments for an echocardigram for Lily. We struggled through that. I think the same of that appointment, we were scheduled to see a pediatric heart specialist in Dallas. This is all happening within 48 hours from our initial doctor visit. It was a crazy whirlwind of events. 
After seeing the cardiologist, we had some hope. This condition (Ventricular Septal Defect) could correct itself. But the odds were against us since Lilyann was not thriving. Remedies were made to help boost her intake calories and she was put on heart meds to help strengthen her heart and reduce fluid around the heart. 
Finally after an unsuccessful attempt to get her weight up, she was hospitalized for Failure to Thrive. A feeding tube was inserted and she was in the hospital for 12 days to get her back up to where she needed to be. Talk about scary time for these parents. I'm not sure when it was, but Jed and I made the decision to just do the surgery. If anything, it would help her. Making a decision for heart surgery for your small newborn is by far one of the hardest decisions that we had to make. But it was the best decision.
I remember sitting in the holding area with Jed just holding her. It was that surreal feeling...I could see us sitting there questioning ourselves if this was the right decision. She's so small. But we were also as calm as we could be for each other. Handing her off to doctors, nurses, and anesthesiologist was hard. Tears came. But it was for the best.
5 hours later, we get the news. The surgeon is sewing her up. It was successful. The hole in her heart was a bit larger than they expected. 11mm. 
I can't begin to thank all the people who were influential in helping us that day. Their prayers, kind words, generous gifts, calls, texts, and hugs....definitely showed these parents that we had their support. And God was big enough to handle everything. 

As her 6 year Anniversary, or Heart Birthday (as she calls it), arrives, I'm remembering all the good things. I'd never wish this situation on anyone. But I look back and see all the good things, the things we learned from it all. Oh, we serve an Amazing God. We have a wonderful church family and fantastic friends and family who are rooting for us. 

 After surgery on her way to recovery

 The 1st time I got to hold Lily after surgery.

 On discharge day with her fabulous heart surgeon, Dr. Mendleoff



The lessons we learned during those 1st few months of Lilyann's life we will treasure and share with others. All in hopes of helping to ease just 1 mommy or daddy's mind that this is the right decision for their little one. My husband was my rock during that time. It was hard to hold in the emotions at times, but it helped to know that he was there. ♥ I know we all learned something during that last hospital stay. 

Happy Heart Day (almost, it's tomorrow) to Lilyann Jade. 6 yrs heart strong!!!
-enJoy


Thursday, April 10, 2014

Going with the flow

Happy Thursday to you all!
Today's my day to just "go with the flow". There's no rush to do this or that...and tomorrow is always another day. Yep! I've hit that day in my week. 
It's been a fun tiring week. A close friend has started working out with me. We are accountable to each other for eating right and working out :) Tomorrow, I'm going participate in an Aqua-fit class at the gym. I'm excited and a teeny bit nervous. But I'll step out of my comfort zone for my friend, since she's endured Nazi Joy on the stair climber machines this week. ;) 

I'm going with the flow today...but laundry still must be done. I'm working on that in between potty sessions with Chickie and just usual toddler antics. More than anything, I'm looking forward to nap time. It's well earned today and we've only been up for 5.5 hours.

We've been playing outside this week. The torrential downpour on Sunday washed away most of the pollen. Outdoors is somewhat bearable now. Leia is loving picking all the flowers in the backyard. She'll be sad when we finally mow the backyard. I'm thinking it will help with our allergies even if we do have to lose the pretty flowers and awesome photo opportunities.

 yes, she's almost barefoot. My kids rarely wear shoes out in the backyard these days. :)

 Pretty Lily. She enjoying swinging with her sister after she picked some beautiful flowers for me.


 Dakota even ventured away from his electronics (YAY!!!) to enjoy some sunshine. He's growing up so fast, but I love that he still enjoys having a good time outdoors with his sisters. It's amazing what a few minutes outdoors will do for a grumpy child. 


And Leia once again...playing in a box. All these toys here and the box is the most entertaining. Not only has she worked her legs today, but also her brain...lol (at least, I'm hoping). She did play a good bit in that box. I even let her take crayons into the box to "color it pretty."  This week, Chickie aka Leia has informed me that she is not Chickie "I Weia Arie"  (Leia Marie). 

Life is grand. Share a smile with someone today.
-enJoy